Exactly

Because we are trained that getting married is a right of passage. Plus who doesn't want to have a day that was planned by them and is everything they want.
Getting married feels like you've succeeded and found the one you're supposed to be with and now you can start your life.
But we just have to keep telling ourselves - it is okay if I wait and do the things I had planned for my life. When the time is right I will get married and it will be wonderful then. I don't have to do it now:)
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She's so right.